Totsy is subscription-only so we can stay ad-free, never sell your data, and keep the community focused on people who are genuinely here to connect. Choose your plan below.
You save $8/mo as a founding member
Secure this price on Waitlist$69 billed every 3 months — save $18
Secure this price on Waitlist$90 billed every 6 months — save $24
Secure this price on WaitlistFounding member pricing is locked in permanently for waitlist members. Regular pricing applies after launch.
Join the waitlist today and guarantee early access at the founding member price — permanently locked in for you.
We know Totsy is a larger investment than mainstream dating apps. That is a deliberate architectural choice. Here is exactly what your subscription does:
A premium price tag naturally attracts people who are genuinely serious about finding someone compatible.
We don't rely on automated ban-bots. Your fee pays real humans to carefully protect the community.
Free apps survive by selling your privacy and pushing ads. We survive exclusively through your direct support.
When every member is financially invested, the quality of conversation, respect, and intent rises dramatically.
We answer to you, not advertisers or venture capitalists. Every feature we build is designed solely for your benefit.
Your subscription directly funds the ongoing development of new privacy tools, better matching, and platform enhancements.
We don't do "premium" tiers that hide basic safety tools. Every subscribing member gets full access to the entire platform and all protection features.
Your privacy matters offline, too. Charges will appear on your bank statement as a neutral, discreet name like "Totsy Services".
No dark patterns or difficult cancellation flows. You can cancel your subscription with two clicks from your account settings.
No hidden fees, no tricky renewals. Transparency is part of our safety model.
By requiring a valid credit card, we establish an absolute 18+ verification barrier and prevent bad actors from effortlessly creating new accounts after being banned.
We securely accept all major credit and debit cards (Visa, Mastercard, American Express) as well as Apple Pay and Google Pay through our encrypted payment processor.
Yes, for your convenience, subscriptions auto-renew at the end of your billing cycle. We will send you an email reminder 3 days before any renewal occurs, and you can cancel anytime.
Yes! If you've found a connection or just need a break, you can "Pause" your profile. We'll hold your data safely and stop billing until you're ready to return.